Dudes Share The One Thing They Wish Girls Would Do In Bed

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Most of the time, we think of guys as simple sex machines who can just get up, get going, and leave satisfied no matter what. But that’s not really the case. Guys are, I know this is gonna sound crazy but, people! Just like us! They have likes, and dislikes and particular tastes.

And since there are endless articles from here to the Moon about what girls wish guys would do in the bedroom, why not take a second to ask the dudes the same question? That’s what AskReddit did over on this thread, and the answers might give you some ideas.

Warning: Very NSFW.

Initiate sex.

Communicate more.
This is supposed to be a nice thing for both of us, so tell me what you want.

Not radiate heat levels that match the sun when i’m trying to sleep

Give compliments if I did good. You have no idea how much it helps on the self-esteem.

Give me foreplay as well.
Some women don’t understand erections need to be fed. They don’t just get up and stay up for the entire session.
Touch me in non-sexual areas. Make me anticipate your next touch. Make me want it.

It’s okay to touch me and explore my body, too.
It’s not that women never do it, but it is rare. Sometimes it’s nice to be appreciated for our bodies the way we like to explore yours.

Ask me how my day was 

Sometimes I want to be little spoon.

Exist.

Compliments. I had been working out a lot, and started having sex with this girl. She would run her hand along my arms and tell me how strong I was. Was it true? I don’t even f*cking care, it felt great.
Also in this same vein. Lie sometimes if you have to. I am an average guy with an average sized dick. It felt amazing that she would touch it and say sh*t like “you’re so big” or we would be mid-coitus and she would moan about how deep I was. Was any of that true? f*ck no. Did I like it? f*ck yes.

Talk dirty. I get it requires a bit of confidence but it’s insanely hot.

12. From user lars294lars:

Wake up to a bj

13. From user ThirdEncounter:

More licking. More tongue everywhere!!!
Edit: Haha, I didn’t really think of the butt. More like neck, ears, legs, fingers. But f*ck it, the butt should be okay too. We’re in the 21st century!!

14. From user ChrysMYO:

Give head with Confidence and enthusiasm
For men, sex is as much visible as it is Physical. We can feel the subtlety in your mannerisms. When you don’t want to give head. We KNOW it. And you’re not really helping anyone, because it’s just going to take us longer to cum, when you do it half heartedly.
Giving head like it was the greatest event of your life can shave minutes off of the time it’ll take a man to cum.
So enjoy it, your neck will thank you.

15. From user I_Adore_Fat_Chicks:

Lose the body self consciousness.
I’m in bed with you because I find you wildly attractive. So don’t be shy and pull away when I touch or caress parts of you that you’re embarrassed by.
My SO has a super cute belly. I love spooning with her and holding her belly – my arm around her waist and fingertips tucked just under the waistband of her panties.
She’s self conscious about it. Like she thinks she needs to be a size zero.
Honey, if I found size zero women attractive, I’d be with a size zero woman.

not hog the covers

may seem weird coming from a dude, but more kissing.
we should both be panting with desire before clothes even come off. there’s a time and a place for quickies, but assuming we’re not in a rush, let’s take our time. it’s supposed to be fun, people!

I find it incredibly sexy when girls pleasure themselves while we’re f*cking. Cowgirl with her facing me, one hand grabbing her tit and the other rubbing her clit is my favorite.

Make noises. I’ve been with one “screamer” but no one can seem to manage to make any noise at all unless they’re shouting “OH GOD YES!” ad nauseum.
Moan, talk dirty (admittedly difficult), grunt, just say sh*t like “oh yeah” and “right there” or something. Yell “YEE HAW” or some sh*t, I don’t know.

20. From user Cohacq:

They never go for my nipples. Just because i dont have boobs doesnt mean they’re not sensitive!

The biggest issue I have with lets say…. about half of the girls I have been with (not a lot but enough to create a statistic) unless you sit them down and say “ok what do you like” they wont tell you. You can be the greatest person in bed on this planet and never make a girl satisfied if she doesnt let you know what she likes and dislikes, every girl is different so what gets them off can be a full 180 from the last girl or even a 180 from the last time you had sex together so tell people whats good and dont just live with unsatisfying sex. Also if you just starfish out and dont work with your man then he is not the problem, move a little.

Most of the time, we think of guys as simple sex machines who can just get up, get going, and leave satisfied no matter what. But that’s not really the case. Guys are, I know this is gonna sound crazy but, people! Just like us! They have likes, and dislikes and particular tastes.

And since there are endless articles from here to the Moon about what girls wish guys would do in the bedroom, why not take a second to ask the dudes the same question? That’s what AskReddit did over on this thread, and the answers might give you some ideas.

Warning: Very NSFW.

Initiate sex.

Communicate more.
This is supposed to be a nice thing for both of us, so tell me what you want.

Not radiate heat levels that match the sun when i’m trying to sleep

Give compliments if I did good. You have no idea how much it helps on the self-esteem.

Give me foreplay as well.
Some women don’t understand erections need to be fed. They don’t just get up and stay up for the entire session.
Touch me in non-sexual areas. Make me anticipate your next touch. Make me want it.

It’s okay to touch me and explore my body, too.
It’s not that women never do it, but it is rare. Sometimes it’s nice to be appreciated for our bodies the way we like to explore yours.

Ask me how my day was 

Sometimes I want to be little spoon.

Exist.

Compliments. I had been working out a lot, and started having sex with this girl. She would run her hand along my arms and tell me how strong I was. Was it true? I don’t even f*cking care, it felt great.
Also in this same vein. Lie sometimes if you have to. I am an average guy with an average sized dick. It felt amazing that she would touch it and say sh*t like “you’re so big” or we would be mid-coitus and she would moan about how deep I was. Was any of that true? f*ck no. Did I like it? f*ck yes.

Talk dirty. I get it requires a bit of confidence but it’s insanely hot.

12. From user lars294lars:

Wake up to a bj

13. From user ThirdEncounter:

More licking. More tongue everywhere!!!
Edit: Haha, I didn’t really think of the butt. More like neck, ears, legs, fingers. But f*ck it, the butt should be okay too. We’re in the 21st century!!

14. From user ChrysMYO:

Give head with Confidence and enthusiasm
For men, sex is as much visible as it is Physical. We can feel the subtlety in your mannerisms. When you don’t want to give head. We KNOW it. And you’re not really helping anyone, because it’s just going to take us longer to cum, when you do it half heartedly.
Giving head like it was the greatest event of your life can shave minutes off of the time it’ll take a man to cum.
So enjoy it, your neck will thank you.

15. From user I_Adore_Fat_Chicks:

Lose the body self consciousness.
I’m in bed with you because I find you wildly attractive. So don’t be shy and pull away when I touch or caress parts of you that you’re embarrassed by.
My SO has a super cute belly. I love spooning with her and holding her belly – my arm around her waist and fingertips tucked just under the waistband of her panties.
She’s self conscious about it. Like she thinks she needs to be a size zero.
Honey, if I found size zero women attractive, I’d be with a size zero woman.

not hog the covers

may seem weird coming from a dude, but more kissing.
we should both be panting with desire before clothes even come off. there’s a time and a place for quickies, but assuming we’re not in a rush, let’s take our time. it’s supposed to be fun, people!

I find it incredibly sexy when girls pleasure themselves while we’re f*cking. Cowgirl with her facing me, one hand grabbing her tit and the other rubbing her clit is my favorite.

Make noises. I’ve been with one “screamer” but no one can seem to manage to make any noise at all unless they’re shouting “OH GOD YES!” ad nauseum.
Moan, talk dirty (admittedly difficult), grunt, just say sh*t like “oh yeah” and “right there” or something. Yell “YEE HAW” or some sh*t, I don’t know.

20. From user Cohacq:

They never go for my nipples. Just because i dont have boobs doesnt mean they’re not sensitive!

The biggest issue I have with lets say…. about half of the girls I have been with (not a lot but enough to create a statistic) unless you sit them down and say “ok what do you like” they wont tell you. You can be the greatest person in bed on this planet and never make a girl satisfied if she doesnt let you know what she likes and dislikes, every girl is different so what gets them off can be a full 180 from the last girl or even a 180 from the last time you had sex together so tell people whats good and dont just live with unsatisfying sex. Also if you just starfish out and dont work with your man then he is not the problem, move a little.

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